Wednesday, May 22

our graduate

my baby brother graduated. 
it's no secret that i am so proud of this young man. he really is an anomaly. and i'm biased. but it's true. 
i wanted to write a letter to our little boose. but, it's still emotional. and there were tears with dear mark. perhaps his first day of college the lump in my throat will leave? because i have so much to say. to keep his heart light and full. to remain sensitive to the world around him. to stay involved and work hard. to make people laugh. to seek new opportunities and be adventurous. to never be afraid of the unknown. to give and it will be given. to make mistakes, but to be wise. to just continue to be himself. and that will always be enough. because he's a special one. 
such a special moment with grandpa bender
 graduate!
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and here's the celebration. with a three in the morning firepit finale. it was real good. 
 it is kind of hard to throw a party for a boy. i had to fight my urge to purchase watercolor and floral and fabulous prints to splash all over the room. but, then i remembered it was a garage instead of a room. and it was mark, not tori. alas, we stuck to a neutral palette with classic tulips and succulents to bring life into the space.
to avoid the typical graduation scrapbook madness, we chose our favorite images of mark throughout high school and blew them up into engineer prints. with about sixteen photos placed every two feet throughout the room, the concept really turned into a gallery of sorts. the classic lines and black and white photos were simple, but packed a big punch in the space. plus, it was real cheap. brilliant idea, momma b!
 the food, the drinks, and the decor came together with ease. those are the best kind of celebrations. the ones that have impact, but are low stress. 
hmmm - sounds a lot like our graduate - high impact, low drama. yes?
 congratulations mark!
you make us so proud every day. 
love you in big, huge ways. xo

Sunday, May 19

sights of summer

you guys, this weekend was so good. 
it has been awhile since C and i have had an empty agenda. and while we adore gallivanting from here to there, time at home is equally cherished. 
friday night we put jane to bed early and went on a date. dinner, the great gatsby, and drinks. it was so wonderful. we mostly talked about our pup and big things on the horizon. nevertheless, a night out of the town was just what the doctor ordered.
saturday we ventured to the lincoln farmer's market. 
impressed doesn't cut it. you know how i was a sucker for the memphis market? well, lincoln, put a point in your comparison column. it was dang good.
after a day downtown, we found our way back home to enjoy the sunshine. 
 we grilled
 played with our janey bea
 enjoyed fresh flowers in the late afternoon light
and had a few drinks on the patio.
i couldn't help but think of those nights in memphis when C and i would discuss our nightly plans. he was outside grilling. i was on my couch, blogging. and we yearned to be together. experiencing the world together. taking in the sweet smell of summer together. toasting to all the good in our life together. enjoying those simple moments of life that seem to have the greatest impact on happiness - together. 
so when i long for st. jude or southern charm or consistent warmth or that beautiful struggle of making it on my own, i will think of nights like these and know that nothing will compare. 

Tuesday, May 14

summer?

could it be? has summer arrived? we were feeling it tonight. i wore a tank and sandals. we watched baseball and ate sunflower seeds. the mood was elevated all day. summer, you are more than welcome to stay put.
enjoy the sunshine! let it soak in your bones and eliminate the negative memories of winter. C and i both agree - the first warm day is much sweeter after a long and harsh winter. appreciation was lost in the south. and as much as we miss the consistent heat, this type of gratitude is raw and oh so wonderful.
 
i forgot my computer at my parent's house. i am so anxious to write a graduation recap, but need the proper photo editing software. stay put. it's coming. 

Wednesday, May 8

what's happenin

just thought i would check in with y'all. 
you know. to tell you we are alive. 
things have been busy. always. for everyone. 
jane has been...a challenge. a cute challenge. we have been told all puppies are. the issue is that C and i have no patience. poor janey bea. 
i came home to this today. i thought it was especially ironic.
we are preparing for my brother's graduation this weekend. it's all kind of bittersweet. look for the details come monday. 
i am wrapping up my courses (praise God for finals!) and trying to determine our next step. wedding plans, business plans, oh my! there could be some exciting stuff on the horizon. here's hoping. 
love you guys. xo.

Wednesday, May 1

happy may!

april went so quickly. and boy, was it an eventful month. as much as march was challenging, april was a blessing. we pledged to forever. we welcomed baby jane into our family. and we received some major clarity on where our journey might take us. here's hoping that may provides even more good news [a wedding plan perhaps, universe? please?].
in my dreamy little childhood, we brought flowers to our neighbors on may day. i intended on doing the same this year. i really did. but the forty degree, four day forecast really rained on my parade. and i'm just not quite sure gary-the-bachelor would appreciate a potted plant as much as alma did.
may your month bring colorful opportunities and the new beauty of spring.